My Life So Far

Subtle, smart, amusing coming-of-age film in Scotland

Fraser, who's around 10-11 years-old, lives on one of those huge British manors in 1930 with a strong matriarch, Gammy (Rosemary Harris), and a household staff. Elderly Uncle Morris (Malcolm McDowell) visits with his young French fiancé, Heloise (Irène Jacob), who incites the fascination of both Fraser and his dad, Edward (Colin Firth). Mary Elizabeth Mastrantonio plays Edward's wife.

Based on a true story, "My Life So Far" (1999) is essentially a coming-of-age tale set in rural Scotland almost a dozen years after WW1 and just as the Great Depression was starting. While the story is told from the perspective of the boy, don't mistake this for a kid's movie. Sure, it starts with a fun, innocent spirit, but there's a lot of adult-oriented material to appreciate.

One reviewer described it as "not plot-driven," which is true, but you'll catch a grip by the second half where the various story elements came together. It immediately brings to mind the excellent "The Secret Garden" (1993) due to the fact that both take place on British country estates in the early 1900s. I suppose "The Secret Garden" is the superior film, yet "My Life So Far" won me over despite my initial apprehension.

Fraser's coming-of-age parallels his father's maturing as an adult well into his 30s. Edward (Firth) is a likable inventor who runs the sphagnum moss business. He's fun, likable and preaches at his church, but he's resistant to change and refers to jazz as the devil's music. His spirituality is tested by the arrival of Heloise and is found wanting; worse, he can't hide his childish infatuation from his wife.

It wasn't until after watching "My Life So Far" that I realized how smart it is. It makes its points simply through showing the day-to-day life of the Pettigrew family one season in 1930. For instance, although Edward is right about the brilliance of Beethoven, he's wrong about jazz. And although his good sid...